People are iMPOSSiBlE!
i find it amazing that people can be raised so follow certain standards and drift so far from them that you barely recognize your own relative...
even as close as a sibling.
You'll have to excuse me...i have alot of words in my head and sometimes they can be difficult to put together =)
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Even funnier situation (lol)
it's amazing how a (for lack of a better term) "flawed" person can recognize thier mirror image
-for example, say i'm a hypocrit, but i, not realizing my own flaw, criticize someone else for the same hypocricy
on the other hand, some, not all, of the intelligent human species realize, "hey she's a bitch, but now i'm acting JUST LIKE HER!!!...something's got to change in me!"
trying not to follow the unreasonable path of someone close to you can be almost impossible!
but the key is to remember how much you dislike that trait & how much you don't want to possess it & with that you (sort of subconsciously) build your will power.
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Now...it's true that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree BUT sometimes the apple falls SO FAR from the tree, you can't tell WHOSE tree it came from!!
Now I'm a psychology major...so that very well be the reason why i think so much about people & why we do, think, or feel certain things
I just have alot of theories lol
I do think that the way people are raised have alot to do with why children (& adults) think certain attitudes, choices, or actions are acceptable, why certain arguments are started, where emotions like jealousy & envy come from, why people make ridiculous statements and decisions, as well as why my mother (& grandmother) hold unreasonable & selfish beliefs that (mostly) don't make ANY SENSE AT All!
the funny part is...after you've anounced your counter argument proven your very valid point, he or she is too embarassed or dumbfounded to admit and accept that he is wrong and, well how can i say this?? .....Unreasonable and selfish so effectively that stupidity grew from it.
since i've noticed such a flaw in um... SOCIETY & since I, even after i receive my degree, cannot provide the WORLD with counciling...I will see to it that my children are raised so cautiously that they, hopefully will not be corrupted by the unreasonable and selfish ways of (some of the same) the very same people who (helped) raise me!
I will do my very best as a parent to make sure my children will learn to have of mind of their own, make wise decisions, and be smart and caring & leave the rest in God's hands....
That's all for now...just have alot on my mind sometimes... =)
[K.B.N.S]
Sunday, September 21, 2008
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